Why do I need him?
Relationships between men and women can develop in different ways. But sooner or later, we come to the conclusion that it is necessary to make a choice in favor of, or against, the existing relationship. The question is: why do I need him? - Each girl is asked. For the first time, this question arises before her when a proposal is received to move to a more serious level in a relationship (to live together or get married). Next time, a similar situation may recur in the first years of living together.
Why does this question arise
Most often, in moments of crisis, a girl asks a very exciting question: why do I need him? The most interesting thing is that it’s very cool if a girl starts to turn on her brains and common sense, at the same time, turns off emotions and tries to assess the situation very seriously. Quite often there are situations when girls are disappointed in the male field and conclude that one is much better.
We take into account all factors
Answering the question why I need it, try to take into account all the factors.Remember your relationship from the very first day of your acquaintance and give them an external rating. Let's try to figure out how you lived all this time. Do you love him, and he you? From him there is no sense in household chores or everything starts to work when he is at home? He gives you gifts and showered with rose petals, or, conversely, you can not remember when they received a flower as a gift? Is he a great dad or doesn’t he even know which kindergarten your son goes to? All his interests end in computer or football, or is he constantly working to provide for you? Does he constantly disappear somewhere with friends, or you can’t get him out of a sofa? Does he care about you and constantly meets you from work, or have you forgotten what his courtship looks like? It is these questions that every girl should think of, and why I need him.
Do not compare a man with other people's husbands
Dear girls, remember that you should not complain about your man and discuss his shortcomings with her friends. Remember that men are big children who never grow up. They love affection, toys, nice words. If you praise him, he is ready to move mountains for you.And if something is wrong, then do not rush to blame him for it, think, turn on your wisdom, and suddenly something is wrong, maybe you are doing something wrong?
Please note that two should work on the relationship. It is impossible that one completely and completely surrendered to them, and the second was afraid to knock his finger on his finger. Do not be discouraged if he does not help you around the house, be wiser, ask him, yes so that he cannot refuse. Do not shout, scold, it is absolutely not an effective method for men. In addition to aggression, screaming and scandals cause nothing more, and they also do not produce fruits. So, girls, we include the seductions, logic, cunning and forward. Try to be wiser, smarter, be an understanding friend with whom you do not want to part.