How to fall in love with a girl?
Are you in love, but you can not get her reciprocity? In fact, you can try to cause a person to respond with feelings, you just need to know how to do it correctly. How to fall in love with a girl?
How to achieve a reciprocal feeling
First, decide if you really want love. Often there is such a situation that many guys are confused in their feelings because of the banal desire for sex. You want her, and it seems that you are in love, but it is not. In addition, if you know each other recently, then you may have a passion, passion, love. After some time, this feeling usually passes. Therefore, first understand how you feel about her. If you are sure that this is love, then go ahead!
Try to find as much as possible in common with the girl. This may be a unity of opinions, thoughts, feelings and sensations. Lying is not necessary, speak sincerely and from the heart. For example, you went to the movies together, she shares her impressions of the film. If her opinion on the film coincides with yours, share it! The more you have in common, the closer you will become to the girl.
Make your dates memorable. Experience with her as many new emotions as possible.May your every meeting be always something new. For example, today you are walking down the street, tomorrow you watch a new film together, the day after tomorrow you go to a new cafe, etc.
Girls love real men. A real man is by nature a leader in relationships. Of course, there are girls who choose henpecked henchmen for themselves, but you are not like that !? You have to decide where and when you meet what you will do. But do not forget to take into account the desires of the girl. If she does not want something, then it is better to give up on it and find a more pleasant alternative for both. The initiator of the first kiss should also be you. Most girls rarely decide to do it first, and so it will be much more pleasant. But the main thing here is to choose the right moment. A kiss should not happen too soon, otherwise she will decide that you are not serious. But not too late. If a guy does not kiss a girl for a long time, then she begins to think about what is not interesting to him in terms of love relationships.
When you are in love, you constantly think about her and try to spend as much time with her as possible. It is very important not to overdo it.Leave her time to think about you, dream about your future dates, miss you. Do not show her your dependence on love. Girls are not interested in annoying guys. You do not need to constantly overwhelm her with new SMS messages, call every five minutes, tell how your whole day has gone. Lead short conversations with her on the phone, and their topic should cause only positive emotions in her. You can tell her a couple of nice compliments or make her laugh with a nice joke.
If you are familiar with the girl recently, then prepare for long conversations. You want to know each other better. Therefore, think over the answers to her possible questions in advance, choose the most appropriate words. It is also a good idea to come up with a couple of original questions for a girl.
Girls like guys who stand out from the crowd with something. Of course, you don’t need to run to the hairdresser’s and make a three-meter pink Mohawk on your head :) It’s enough to work on your way of communicating with others, develop your own style of clothes, have a rare interesting hobby or seriously get carried away with something unusual. People "not from the crowd" are always interesting.
What should be?
Be sure of yourself. And this means that you must be decisive, initiative, have your own opinion and self-esteem. A limp and timid guy is unlikely to be able to cause a response in the girl.
Be an interesting conversationalist who thinks non-stereotyped.
Accuracy, tidiness and cleanliness are your indispensable allies. No girl would be pleased to talk to a guy who has dirty nails or hair for a week now.
Humor brings people together. A good joke to the place is the best way to make your communication easier and more interesting.
It is very important to be honest. If your relationship is in development, and love is just being born, your lie can kill it forever.
Well study the girl. To do this, be interested in her life, learn about it as much as possible. This will help you to behave properly with her. You will know for sure what not to offer and what it is better not to talk about, how you can plan your next date, taking into account her sympathies, etc.
The girl is like a flower. The more you water it, the more it blooms. Only in our case, instead of water, these should be compliments. If you are committed to honest relationships, then compliments should be truthful and sincere, not flattering.
Do not rush things, let everything develop in a natural way.
Make her think of you as a potential guy. To do this, you can call her light jealousy. Her girlfriends should admire you, girls on the streets should give you cute smiles. She will see that you are interesting to other representatives of her sex and will think about you as a possible partner.
How to return the former girlfriend
And what if this girl is your ex? How to fall in love with a former girlfriend? In this situation, you need to act a little differently, because during the relationship you have studied each other quite well, and the above tips may not help.
Be confident, wait and endure. Do not show her how you feel bad, and put pressure on pity. She should see a calm, self-confident guy who looks good and communicates with her without hysteria and accusations. At this stage it is useful to make some changes in your life. Make another haircut, buy yourself new clothes, find an interesting hobby, go in for sports. You kill two birds with one stone: you stop sitting and grieving around the clock and you change, which means you'll become more interesting to the former.
Don't try to mess with her for a while.No need to hang on the phone, throw her e-mail letters. Shut up and it will give a much more effective result. If you are not completely indifferent to her, she will begin to worry, think about you, perhaps be offended that you are not taking any steps to restore the relationship.
Remember the best moments you have experienced together. For example, a memorable place in the city where you first confessed your love to her, or a cozy cafe where your first date took place. After a while, call her and just suggest to go to this place, take a walk and chat. Treat her just like a loved one, but not like your girlfriend. When you are at the same memorable place, unobtrusively talk to her about pleasant recalls. This will help to awaken faded feelings.
Establish a good relationship with her close relatives. This may be a brother, sister, but best of all - parents. They will have a good opinion about you, and they will by chance, but they will remind the girl of you.
Admit your mistakes. If you want to return the relationship, then a serious conversation can not be avoided. Try to analyze your behavior, understand what you are wrong, and fix it.All this calmly and confidently tell the girl. She must believe you, and most importantly, see the corrected errors in the future.
How does a girl in love behave
You did everything you could. And how do you know if a girl loves? What is the psychology of a girl in love? How does a girl in love behave?
- Love transforms the girl from the inside. She seems to glow with happiness, she does not walk, but flutters, on her face there is a sincere and cheerful smile. She becomes more feminine, kind and gentle. Already even with these little things in behavior one can understand whether a girl loves ...
- If the girl is shy, then she will be afraid to confess her love. Such girls betrays their behavior. When they see a person with whom they are in love, their heartbeat quickens, they begin to blush and hide their eyes, are often confused in words and cannot correctly and calmly express a thought with words. Such a girl rarely becomes the initiator of joint pastime, but if something is offered by the beloved boyfriend, she will immediately agree with pleasure.
- The girl tries to make herself more attractive. She will dress beautifully, can make a new hairstyle.She wants to be witty, fun and sociable in the eyes of her beloved boyfriend.
- She wants to take care of her beloved. To make a surprise or surprise for him is a great joy for her.